STOP !!!

Ohh, STOP for God's sake. Stop Plz, will ya? Its all happening too fast...whats the hurry? Common, I need a break. Its not supposed to happen like this...

But that is how the world is. We don't want things to change. Maintaining the Status Quo is always convenient.
Hell... we are all weary of the change, especially when it happens suddenly! When it's imposed on us without our consent.
And on top of that, most of these changes happen without we being able to exercise any control over them whatsoever.
BANG... and the next thing you know you're not in the place you want to be.

We need to accept the change and move on.... But hey, I am an average human... It's never that easy.

I heard of this theory regarding change: The Phases a person goes through...

1. DENIAL: We don't admit this has happened.
2.ANGER: We're pissed off... how could this happen.
3. ACCEPTANCE: Yeah, how long can one ignore the TRUTH staring in the face.
4.GUILT: The fact that we didn't embrace the change even though we knew it was true, and the efforts we could have put in the past which might have either prevented this change or made it a bit sweeter.
5.DEPRESSION: You sink low, lie there for a while...Cursing everything...youeself, the world...the society...the system...

And then as life moves on, so do we.

Most of the time, it is such change that moves the life of a lame-ass-lazy person. Else, he/she will never grow, never live... coz he is too weary of the unknown, too comfortable with the present...

WE need to embrace the fact that change is mostly a blessing in disguise. It opens new avenues in front of us, makes us take tentetive steps in the directions we never even dreamed of...

CHANGE... the only constant thing in our lives.